Managing Your Emotions Is In Your Hands Life is shaped not by the events that happen to us, but by the meanings we assign to those events. Our emotions act as guides within this world of meaning; they can both lead us forward and, at times, become limiting. Emotions and Energy Frequencies In energetic terms, “frequency” refers to the speed of vibration. Everything in the universe—matter, thoughts, and emotions—emits a certain vibration. High-frequency emotions are associated with feelings of lightness, vitality, and healing, while low-frequency emotions are connected to heaviness, tension, and limitation. Love, joy, and acceptance generally resonate at higher frequencies, whereas guilt, shame, and fear operate at lower ones. Each emotional state has its own unique energy level, and through conscious awareness, it is possible to elevate this frequency. David R. Hawkins and the Map of Consciousness Dr. David R. Hawkins, in his book Power vs. Force, introduced the Map of Consciousness, assigning numerical values to different levels of human consciousness. Low-frequency emotions such as anxiety, sadness, and fear diminish energy, while states like peace, compassion, and joy elevate consciousness. This model serves as a powerful reference point in coaching and personal development, as it encompasses both emotional states and underlying thought patterns. The Energy of Thoughts and Emotions The source of our emotions is most often our thoughts. Repetitive beliefs and inner dialogues activate specific emotional patterns: “I am inadequate” → fear, guilt, shame “I can learn from this situation” → courage, acceptance, curiosity Just like emotions, thoughts emit vibrations. Negative and limiting thoughts generate low-frequency emotions, while conscious and constructive thoughts give rise to higher-frequency emotional states. For this reason, mental awareness is the cornerstone of emotional management. We Attract People and Experiences That Match Our Frequency From an energetic perspective, individuals attract people, events, and experiences that are aligned with their emotional frequency. As our inner vibration flows, life begins to unfold at that same frequency. Someone who consistently feels anxious or insecure is more likely to encounter situations that reinforce those emotions. Conversely, those who embody love, acceptance, and trust naturally attract more supportive people and opportunities. Raising emotional frequency is therefore one of the most powerful ways to transform one’s life experience. When Thoughts Change, Emotions Change One of the fundamental principles of coaching is that when thoughts change, emotions change as well. How we perceive a situation directly determines our emotional experience in that moment. For example, the thought “This project will be difficult” may create anxiety, while reframing the same situation as “This project is an opportunity for growth” can generate curiosity and motivation. Emotion does not arise from the event itself, but from the meaning we assign to it. Therefore, transforming thought patterns is one of the fastest and most effective ways to transform emotions. Mental awareness practices in coaching are designed precisely to address this mechanism. Mini Practice: Mental Reframing Observe Your Thought “What thought is present right now? Which emotion does it trigger?” Redirect Constructively When you notice a negative thought, consciously shift it toward a more constructive perspective. Remember the Thought–Emotion Loop Every small mental shift raises your emotional frequency. Example: Thought: “I always make mistakes.” → Emotion: anxiety, fear Reframe: “Everything I do teaches me something.” → Emotion: courage, curiosity Table of Emotional Frequencies Emotion Approx. Frequency (Hz) Description Shame 20 Associated with feelings of worthlessness Inadequacy / Guilt 30–60 Inner criticism, energetic pressure Hopelessness / Apathy 50–80 Low motivation Grief / Sadness 75–100 Experiencing pain, mourning Fear / Anxiety 100–125 Concern about the future, mental pressure Desire / Passion 125–150 Energy of inner drive Anger 150–175 Activating force; needs mindful management Pride / Ego 175–200 “I am good” feeling; needs balance Courage 200–250 Taking risks, expanding limits Neutrality / Acceptance 250–310 Balanced, non-resistant state Willingness / Determination 310–350 Discipline and structured action Love / Compassion 350–500 Healing, expansive state Joy 500–540 Flow, enthusiasm, gratitude Peace / Inner Calm 540–600 Serenity, stillness Enlightenment / Higher Consciousness 600–1000 Idealized higher states of awareness The Journey of Emotional Management In coaching, we often emphasize three core steps: 1. Awareness Naming an emotion activates its energy. Simply saying “I’m anxious,” “I’m hurt,” or “I’m angry” can naturally soften its intensity. 2. Allowing the Flow Rather than suppressing emotions, observing and experiencing them prevents inner blockage. Every emotion begins to transform once it is accepted. 3. Conscious Choice & Elevation Tools Raising emotional frequency starts with small, conscious daily choices. Activities that nourish you—short walks, brief mindfulness pauses, creative outlets—can quickly restore balance. When needed, professional support can help transform deeper patterns underlying emotional responses. Practical Applications: Frequency & Mental Shifts Inner Language Awareness: Notice negative self-talk and gently reframe it with compassion. Gratitude Practice: Fill everyday moments with gratitude. Breath & Body Awareness: Send breath to areas of tension or blocked energy. Coaching Practices: Mental awareness directly influences emotional frequency. Sound / Frequency Therapy: Align with frequencies such as 432 Hz or 528 Hz. Nature & Grounding: Contact with nature supports inner balance. Managing emotions through the lens of energy frequencies and the thought–emotion connection offers a powerful way to understand one’s inner map and rise to a more conscious level of awareness. Transforming thoughts is the fastest way to transform emotions. Mental awareness and conscious choices have a direct impact on how we feel. In coaching practice, exploring this map, recognizing resistance, and weaving transformation step by step creates an inner journey that is both liberating and empowering.